You might want to make one addition to your plans. Move as far away from your wife's family as possible. When you just come here for trips they are on their best behavior, however when you move here permanently they will have crisis after crisis.. each one directly related to the amount of cash you have readily available or can afford with monthly payments.
At first it is not such a big deal, but one day reality will sink in and you will resent the fact that you worked your whole life and sacrificed so that you can support people that have no work ethic other than working you out of your money.
Harsh words? Yes, but true |