There are days when my temper and diplomacy can be brought to boiling point. Yesterday was one of those days. When I returned home from a shopping trip to the city, I saw two workers from the neighbours land throwing banana tree refuse over my back fence, it was not a lot but then it was not the first time. I also found they have been useing our water Pump. this means they have climbed our perimiter fencing. I asked them what they thought they were doing, one of them said his boss told him to do it. so as you can imagine, off I went to see my neighbour, his reply to my question was, WHAT has it to do with you? I told him that I was home now and I don't want this sort of thing to be happening. he said that I was not the owner, so it had nothing to do with me. my wife went to see the Barangay Captain who seemed not too bothered about it and said surely, you can sort this out without any officialdom. well Ok yes it can, if my neighbour has the balls to understand that it may be my wife's name on the title but as far as we are concerned it is a joint effort between us and we see it as ours. This neighbour is not living next door but some 400 mtrs away and has just aquired the land and he will clear it. any ideas on how to approach this. I dont see why I should have to put up with this at all.