Necessary information but unnecessary questions.
If you meet online, or at Why Not then you do not want to waste your time with too many questions. Questions I have learned not to waste my time on during the first encounter (first date or chats) are the following: (It is not that these are not important questions but the answers usually change on subsequent dates/chats)
How many children do you have? (If they mention any, then usually add 1 or 2 to the total. I usually calculate that they will admit to one more child for every three dates/chats you have with them... true story.)
Do not ask how many fathers their are for the children. (Simply divide the number of children by one and that will give you the correct answer.)
Do not ask if they are married. (Just ask if any male cousins are living with them.)
When you meet the family do not ask their family any questions? (The answers are well rehearsed and the answers useless to you since they are part of the promo package being offered.... remember guarantees and warranties are almost no existent in the Philippines.)
Pertinent questions for the Why Not lady on the first encounter (drink purchase) is "when do you have to be home?", "Do you have a home?" (if the answer is "no" you may not be able to get rid of her after the "date" and may want to rethink your intended program.)
This is Dave, Imp is sleeping again