Dirty greasy men

[pecoskid45]

I resemble that remark! However, I'm not greasy. In the US we have a saying, "mind your own business". If you don't like it, go back where you
came from.

[barramac]

yes, i did not want to bring it up, but i thought that it was probably u. thank u for the honesty

[Rhoody]

dirty greasy man yes.... old no... so ity can't be me..

[rusty trust]

its seems i know who is realy that.. but i dont tell anybody about this.... i was in the one of the hong out place for some beer,, but what i see is just old man hongging around and waching at me... maybe thay thougth that i was there just because im looking for them.... then sorry im not one of thoose looking for man.... where always just houngging on the place where the beer is there ticket to take advantage of thoose ladys fine for just some peso.. and beer... its just keeping them more dity old man looks and feel great about this and think they are usefull but in reality they are NOT Case NOt At ALL... specialy if they just there for just taking advantage of young Girls even the girls are there to let them be treat not nice....

[barramac]

rusty
thank u for the local insight. can i ask u one questions

what characteristics do u respect about individual foreigners in town and what other things do u think is bad

[Diver]

Originally Posted by barramac

rusty
thank u for the local insight. can i ask u one questions

what characteristics do u respect about individual foreigners in town and what other things do u think is bad

I dont understand that you ask that.
And think there is no problem to treat a girl (woman) nice and correct.
I am an old man also, (64) but I also know that they respect me always because I treat everyone as a lady and that is what they are for me.

It is so simple, they call it respect.

Greetings J.Diver

[kinhason]

Well that hit's the nail on it's head. The Golden Rule seems not to go out of style...do unto others as .......to you!
It would be very informative if we had some of the local women in the thread.
The guys would probably benefit as well as the women from a candid input from them.
K

[kuting]

In Amsterdam, prostitution and marijuana is legal.

We went to Amsterdam to visit the “Lady of Nations”, but not the red-light district.

Rhoody thanks for confirming my point

taga-Cambagroy

Originally Posted by Rhoody

hmmm, when I saw the topic "dirty greasy men" I was quite sure you guys talk about me...

on the other hand i must admit that in why not (depending on the day of the week) 50% are so called freelancers and the bar is very famous for that.

That is part what the philippines are famous and many billion coming to this country exactly for that reason. You can be blindfolded, but the chocolate hills are not the reason why people coming from some thousand miles away. yes, some come for diving.....
There would be no "sex-tourist" if your countrymen or in this case girls would not offer it. In Dumaguete are so many freelancers who are doing that for the quick peso and why not is famous for that.
I was no witness of this situation, but knowing Duma quite well, the situation is not easy to believe for me. If the girl is a normal guest she has many friends there (no pinay/oy goes out alone or does not know many others). Or she was "on duty" but did not like the customer(hey get another "job")

To the thread opener a privat advice. Don't get involved into anything like that, your days in the PI could be counted though...
It is one call to the floor manager or a waitress there and the situation would have been over. My 2 cents after 7 years...

Rhoody

[barramac]

Originally Posted by Diver

I dont understand that you ask that.
And think there is no problem to treat a girl (woman) nice and correct.
I am an old man also, (64) but I also know that they respect me always because I treat everyone as a lady and that is what they are for me.

It is so simple, they call it respect.

Greetings J.Diver

hi j.diver
i ask this as a society question, not one about an individual relationship. some foreigner behavior here really does not fly in any country, while for other foreigners, the philippines brings out a community goodness that they probably did not have back home.

some societies hate foreigners, some tolerate them, others are openly welcome, for a variety of reasons. i feel the philippines is in the middle, i just curious about the evaluation factors, such as perceives importance of wealth, manners, anti social behavior, the local social class system, education, perceived gold digging etc.

will locals reach the tipping point from welcome to outright dislike, like they have in thailand(i have 2 diver/hoterier cousins in krabie, lived there for 20 years(half their lives), they live quiet family lives and are very nice people. they position in society has moved from local celebrities, to outward unilateral hostility). it is the behavior of a few that has caused this. i have personally witnessed the tipping point in cambodia and it is not pretty for most people. i for one enjoyed it, because i like change, but i would like to hear the factors that the philippinos place the greatest importance in

bottom line. like it or not, we all get lumped together

[Rhoody]

Originally Posted by kuting

Rhoody thanks for confirming my point

taga-Cambagroy

I don't confirm your point at all...
we talk about the oldest business in the world and it has nothing to do with the nationality and color age or religion.